Does Mars conjunct Venus ALWAYS mean adultery in the natal?

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Hi All,

I know I'm oversimplifying just one aspect, but I've got to say I don't know if I've ever personally seen/met anyone who has the Venus-Mars conjunction natally and has not at least once committed adultery. That being said, I'd like your opinions and experiences with this aspect and its modifications that may produce different results. However, I'm interested in real experiences rather than theories based only on texts.

Some modifications of this aspect include dignity (i.e. if Venus is in Scorpio it will be debilitated, if Mars is in Aries then Venus in Aries will be debilitated), the house holding this conjunction, and also which planets are co-present. For example, if Jupiter is conjunct the Venus-Mars conjunction, does Jupiter's presence expand those adulterous experiences of prevent them based on morale? i.e. imagine Jupiter in Pisces conj Venus in Pisc conj Mars in Pisces, or Jupiter in Sagittarius conjunct Venus-Mars.

Thank you!

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This seems a bit much. I do think that the combination of Venus-Mar-Jupiter is common in the charts of people engaged with multiple sex partners. This might be anything from a married mom engaged in a consensual open marriage to Jeffrey Epstein. Venus and Mars are the sexy planets, and Jupiter whispers that if a little is good, a lot is better. You'd have to look at additional facts to see what sort of human being you're dealing with.

Further, sometimes people really keep a lid on their Mars-Venus-Jupiter sexual proclivities, but the chart has to express itself somehow. I've seen the monogamous Mars-Venus-Jupiter wife married to the cheating husband, for example. He's carrying the planetary signature for her.

p. s. I'm personally in a long-term monogamous marriage without Venus-Mars contacts, but lest you think I'm merely expressing "theory," I read a fair number of charts for people as well as the occasional celebrity chart.

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I have the conjunction in Aries and consider myself asexual and never cheated on anyone. I do not have a crazy sex drive and jump in the sack with random people. Mine also aspects Jupiter in Leo, so it didn't magnify it (although I have Moon/Neptune in Sag trine to it so perhaps some better understanding and empathy that would make it less likely to cheat). I am very independent and found relationships smothering and tiring, among other issues (also painful/consuming when it was real love - Venus opp Pluto). I did used to attempt dating and a previous boyfriend (heavy Leo planets in the 7th) spent a weekend with a mutual female friend and I am pretty sure cheated on me. He did not have the conjunction but he had Saturn in Leo in the 7th lording his chart and was his own worst enemy. I didn't really care in the end either way and never asked him about it. I broke up with him not long afterwards for various other reasons but it didn't help and he wanted to marry me. Although I don't like cheating and if I were in a relationship it would be the furthest thing from my mind (since if you want to sleep with someone else that is a conversation two adults can work out), I also don't think it is always the end of the world like some other people do and sometimes it can even be worked out with effort but it takes maturity on both sides. I can think of two friends going through a divorce where their husbands (neither have the conjunction) cheated and they were pretty clueless about their partners having a wandering eye. They found out months later. I guess I am the type of person who is highly intuitive and am also open to a dialogue with another person when something isn't working and I want to understand what is going on. I don't think you possess a partner. I do think if someone wants to be with other people they should ask themselves why they are staying in their current relationship, though. I don't always understand the mentality behind cheating because it seems very juvenile and absurd, if not maybe someone starved for some sort of attention, but usually the relationship is already not working. I don't think a particular placement will always show this and it is fairly common for someone to have cheated at one point in their life, often regretfully too. People make mistakes and many act on their emotions in the moment. It could even be that someone acts out of character while in a relationship - something maybe seen in composite or synastry.

I do think my conjunction gives me a less conventional view of sex and I am fairly androgenous and I think maybe understand some men better than most women. I remember one of the friends whose husband cheated once mentioning how she found some porn he had hidden from her. I told her that was normal and porn is something a lot of people enjoy, but she thought it was like he was cheating on her. In that sense I guess I am different than some other people. I found it more odd that he was hiding porn from her than him actually watching porn. I told her years before the relationship ended in cheating that their communications between one another was awful and she was also not affectionate when it was something he craved while he was someone who criticized constantly when she needed affirmation. That was the problem, not a planetary conjunction, nor even cheating really. Cheating was just the conclusion to a very long problem.

This link states the following:
http://www.skyscript.co.uk/love.html

"Sexual 'abnormalities' - including promiscuity - are associated in general with afflictions between Venus, Mars and Saturn....Looking at the aspects there was a high number of Mars/Venus/Saturn contacts - in fact 40% of the charts had both Mars/Saturn and Venus/Saturn closely aspected. Only three charts contained no aspects between the three planets." In this case, my best friend whose husband cheated had Venus square Mars conjunct Saturn in Virgo and Venus was retrograde in Gemini. This was T square Neptune and the article mentions Neptune afflictions adding to the problem with Venus, as well as Mars in Virgo having various troubles in relationships. Her own chart also had the same Mars/Saturn in Virgo in the 7th house.

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I've met Russian girl who was addicted to big penis. She is american lawyer, beside of Mercury at MC in Gemini she has Venus -Chiron conjunction in Aries in 9th (Sun also in 9th - place of joy). So, probably that Venus detrimental in sign and conjuncture with Chiron caused that addiction.
Though, with Virgo AC and strong Mercury she supposed to be shy and smart...

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Yuriy wrote:I believe Adolf Hitler had Venus-Mars conjunction in 7th with Taurus Sun.
So, he was talented orator and terrible dictator, don't know about adultery...
Saturn was aspecting Hitler's Venus. His Saturn was 13 degrees Leo 27 minutes, antiscion 16 degrees Taurus 33 minutes, which is exactly conjunct his Venus. https://www.astro.com/astro-databank/Hitler,_Adolf

(His Phaethon is 3 degrees Taurus and his IsisTranspluto is 4 degrees Cancer 50 minutes. Not aspecting his Venus).

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Though, with Virgo AC and strong Mercury she supposed to be shy and smart...
Madonna has Virgo rising with Mercury in Virgo on her ascendant. She is far from shy. This is why you have to look at the entire chart. Mercury in Gemini isn't shy either, especially in the 10th. It is an indication of a highly communicative person and also someone who likely uses Mercury in their work - such as a public speaker or writer.
Venus -Chiron conjunction in Aries in 9th (Sun also in 9th - place of joy
Is her Venus combust or under the beams as well? A fire day chart Venus combust is very heated (not unlike my own), making it different. In general, Venus afflictions can show unconventional choices related to love. That can be cheating but it can also indicate lack of sex or possibly bisexuality or being gay, just because heterosexuality is more common. An afflicted Venus, especially in a woman, also shows breaking norms when it comes to social choices and gender roles. If her Venus is oriental she might be more forceful like myself, for example, and maybe even a feminist. People with unconventional Venuses likely accept unconventional ideas about love better than others as well. I know I do. Most of my friends are either gay or bisexual.

Interesting that we are talking about this as Venus is in Aries on Valentine's Day.

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Where is my previous reply?
I see two replies above mine. I just logged in late this morning so I don't know.

She has Venus square both Mars and Saturn, which are conjunct, and again matches what the author in the Skyscript article said about promiscuous people. Additionally, all three are ill dignified. I agree though that Chiron tends to be very significant in conjunction (and is squaring Mars/Saturn) and might be highlighting some early issues (such as abuse) that have factored into her love life.
This link states the following:
http://www.skyscript.co.uk/love.html

"Sexual 'abnormalities' - including promiscuity - are associated in general with afflictions between Venus, Mars and Saturn....Looking at the aspects there was a high number of Mars/Venus/Saturn contacts - in fact 40% of the charts had both Mars/Saturn and Venus/Saturn closely aspected. Only three charts contained no aspects between the three planets."
This woman also has Sun conjunct Jupiter opp Uranus, which I would associate with as a very iconoclastic person, if not downright alienating to others at times, although I doubt she lacks a sense of humor. Again, she does have Venus oriental, in a fire sign in a day chart (above the earth as well), which is very much out of character and would more likely show a woman who does not tend follow any social conventions and not just romantic ones. She might be socially coarse or awkward in general or even offensive.

Unrelated, but I like to look at the nodes. She also has Sun conjunct the SN (and Jupiter) and often the person achieves much and has a job title like you mentioned (lawyer) where their title is important to them and identifies them in some way, but in order for spiritual growth it is said that they need to separate themselves from that sense of identity or knowing their true self is not attached to their achievements. Often they begin to feel discontent or empty with their achievements and are never really satisfied if they don't and can be their own worst critic (even more so with Mars conjunct Saturn). This could be in part why they also might be promiscuous - to try time make this emptiness go away for a time. With Jupiter/SN often wealth can come easier but again the person has to detach themselves from it for growth or might feel better to share wealth rather than to take it for themselves.

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Well, she's some corporation's lawyer and does some "law science" related research and writing. And she's quite decent person in regards that she was moderator at some russian speaking forum and quite fair and has friendly approach.... Until it comes to sexual subjects and insisting in virtual sex games with many guys with detailed description and emphasizing on extremely large penis...
I also remember that movie director David Lynch has Moon at MC and always worked with groups of actors and movie staff, but he was often quite cruel with people while creating great movies.
I was suspecting some child abuse too since she told strange things about her father.