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You seem to have given this matter a great deal of thought and indicate it is giving you cause for much concern, so I feel you deserve a response.

If you simplify your question to reflect you and the man, then you could consider your significators to be Jupiter (Asc ruler) and the Moon. The significator for the man could be Mercury (7th house = other person) or Mars as this is most angular + in the 7th house.

Mercury and Mars are in Virgo and the detriment of Jupiter, but neither make a major aspect, or by antiscia, to Jupiter or the Moon so there does not appear to be any testimony of adverse action against you; there may be some feeling of antipathy by him toward you.

Neither Jupiter or the Moon seem threatened, unless you feel the square from the Moon to Pluto is of consequence?